Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Afraid of Women? Pick-Up Artists and Confident Men Use This Powerful Technique a Lot!

Almost every man is afraid of women until a certain point in his life. The less experienced you are with women, the more naive, idealistic and uncertain about your innate qualities you'll be.



Here's why. In order to have certainty about your own value as a human being, you need other people to confirm that you're valuable and show or tell you how great you are. After a while, you internalize this feedback and it becomes your self-esteem. But what if no one makes you feel great about yourself and helps you realize that you are worth "it"? What happens if people's feedback is just the opposite of good or if you've been ignored your entire life? Then what do you do?



Well, here's one powerful technique that you can use in this situation in order to stop being afraid of women and become confident in what you have to offer.



It's actually a way of thinking and it's called: "me against the world".



It means this: no one cares about your success with women. Society is not in the business of making you a big success with women; it's in the business of making you a good doggy that is easy to control and manipulate. Otherwise you may become a powerful, rational being to whom they can't sell anything. I'm not saying that there's a huge conspiracy at the core of society. I'm just saying that nobody has any real interest in telling you the truth and helping you to become a successful human being.



It's not profitable.



Knowing this helps you to recognize the fact that no one is going to move a finger so that you can have amazing women in your life. It also helps you to acknowledge the fact that other people's opinion of you is irrelevant. Most of them want you to fail because it's a very competitive world out there. You're not the only one who wants to have a loving relationship with an exceptional woman. There are many other men out there who want the exact same thing. And their strategy is to make you feel embarrassed of what you're doing.



If they succeed at stopping you from approaching women, they win and you lose.



But why is this attitude of "me against the world" so effective? Because you can't be afraid of women if you revolt against everyone but you. When you revolt, you automatically stop caring about what other people think. You suddenly realize that they're not your friends. They just happen to be there when you approach the girl and they have no intention whatsoever in helping you to get her.



Keep in mind that fear is an emotional state that makes victims among weak, inert, naive, sedated people who become immobilized because they actually believe that the world looks at them and cares about their success.



And man who revolts against the world is anything but weak, inert, naive or sedated. He's powerful, aggressive about what he wants, committed to getting it and determined to succeed against the odds and have his revenge against all those who underestimated him.

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