Why is it that some men know how to talk to women and other men just don't? Think it's just luck or a fluke? Think again. The number one thing that people who confidently talk to women know, that almost 99% of all men fail to consider, is this simple system: Don't talk, just listen!
Yep that's it! You may find several other reason that other men give you as to how to talk to women but the one vital aspect that is only known by experts is they simply ask questions.
This is the art of your flirting conversation.
Why? Because every women loves talking about themselves. It is a simple as that. Want the expert tips on how to talk to women? This is it - When you are striking up a conversation with a woman, you need to be more concerned with asking her question than trying to act "cool".
Some people will tell you that you need to be funny, flirty and forward when you approach women and while this is definitely part of how you talk to women it isn't the secret to success. By asking her question you make her talk about herself and this shows her two things.
1. You are interested in her and 2. You are a good listener. Two vital components to winning over a women's heart.
IMPORTANT
Always, always, always ask her questions about happy things. By this I mean something that will bring her to a happy place. For example, her favourite foods, her favourite films etc. Or things like what she's interested in, what her ambitions are and what her best vacation was. You see when you engage women into a "happy mind frame" they associate this feeling with you and you score flirting points!
Remember the key in learning how to talk to women is you should never ask her Closed Questions (i.
e. questions that only require Yes or No answers) You should ask her as much open questions as possible. The more open the question the longer the answer and the happier the question the more points you score!
Try this and I assure you that you will be totally shocked by just how easily you find talking to women is.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
0 ความคิดเห็น:
Post a Comment