How to Pick Up Women Today

Take a deep breath. Relax. I've been there. I know how stressful it is to struggle to find that date on the weekends, and how we clam up when trying to approach a new woman at a bar. Forget everything you've been taught in the past, this guide is all you need to pick up women.



Remain confident. At all times. Psyche yourself up, do whatever it is that gets you fired up. At home, give yourself a good talking to in the mirror, ever seen Entourage? Johnny Drama yells at himself just before he does an audition.



Do the same, get the confidence you need to succeed. Women love a man who is confident, but not too cocky. Let her know that you are a man who gets what he wants.



Make eye contact. Meet her eyes, and do not look away, come on, you're an alpha male! Let her know you are very interested in her. Women always look to a man's eyes first, so show yours off. Don't break contact, because women love to feel as if they are the most beautiful one in the room, so treat her like that with your eyes.



Ask open ended questions.



Never ask a question with a "yes" or a "no" answer. If you're going to pick up a woman, you want to get her talking, because women love to talk. Get her going about anything positive you can think of, such as her favorite places to eat in the area, what she likes to do for fun, her favorite television shows. You get the point. Women are so oblivious when they're talking that when they get some alone time and think about you, they'll think how great of a guy you are, with a wonderful personality, when in fact, you didn't even say anything! Listening is the key, women want to vent, and talk, so let them.



Include her friends. If she's alone, jackpot, you are golden. But more likely than not, she came with a group of friends, and they are even more important then your woman at the time being. Include them in the discussion, let them know you're a great guy. She values their opinion more than anyone, so if you can convince them that you're good for their friend, than you can convince anyone that the Earth is flat.



So there you go, stud. Follow these few simple steps and you will be shocked at the way in which your black book has suddenly filled up.



Now get out there and get em!