What Do You Mean You Can't Attract Women? How to Attract Women Using Physical Contact

Touching a woman is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can't expect to attract women without first establishing a basic level of trust. Before you can start trying to kiss or sleep with a woman you must first have a regular amount of touching going both ways. It doesn't matter what kind of touching takes place. It just has to be present for you to begin your final goal of seduction.



That is the problem many men have when it comes to how to attract women, how can you develop closeness without scaring her away? Too often, men just go for it and make a girl feel uncomfortable or possibly violated because of their quick attempts.



Some men decide they don't want to risk turning the girl off, and avoid any kind of contact at all. This usually sends the wrong message, that he is either not into the girl, or that he is too scared to show it. Either way, these are not traits that are going to help you attract women.



To attract women through physical contact you just need to follow these basic rules. None of these rules will interfere with most girls personal boundaries, but at the same time they show that you're a confident man who's not afraid of showing a girl you are attracted to her through casual physical contact,.



A lot of guys think that they should in no way touch a girl when they first meet them. This is false. When you're first introducing yourself to a girl you can casually and gently touch the outside of her arm while at the same time verbally expressing yourself. The outside of the arm is in no way an intimate enough place for her to think of the touch strange. However it is also a sign that you're a personable kind of guy, who won't get scared on his quests to attract women.



When you find yourself in the middle of conversation with the woman that you find attractive it is important to keep the physical contact going.



This helps maintain the rapport in which you've created and helps it grow into mutual sexual attraction. For this you should use a method called stealth tactility. Stealth tactility involves making contact with an attractive woman in a disguised way. For example, if she needs to use the rest room, but doesn't know where it is, you can create intimacy, by putting your hand on her shoulder, bring her in closer, moving your bodies around until you face the right direction than pointing with your other hand, where she should go.



When finishing your night or conversation with a girl, always try to use a 'contact close'. After getting her phone number or arranging to meet again, make sure you kiss her on the cheek or give her a hug and kiss. Although you may think the hard work has been done, once you have achieved a later date, making physical contact before you part ways with the woman is a great way to make sure she remembers you and will want to see you again.



Physical contact is a great way to show a girl that you are confident and that you are interested in her.



Implement these strategies in your everyday meetings with girls, and you will be that much closer to being a man who can seemingly attract women at will.