A friend asked me at work today, "What is it about Vin Diesel that girls love so much? He's bald and always wears a tight shirt. If I shaved my head and starting wearing muscle shirts, would girls like me too?"
The thing my guy friend saw in Vin Diesel is the same thing guys want themselves to show girls. Unfortunately, women don't fall for the cool haircut, or the clothes a man wears. Women look into character, so a hair cut and definitive clothes are just some things that help match a guy to a character that women adore.
Re-enter Vin Diesel. If you are not a fan, you may have seen how he is in movies, and why in movies, women flock to him like bees to a flower. He has this bad boy look about him that is simply sexy.
Here are some things behind the secret of what women want in a man. If you could hear the innermost wishes of women, without inhibition, this is what they will most likely say to men, to help them score better with women.
Be a man of a few honest words. Men are known to listen, women are known to talk.
It's the balance in the world. A woman, because of her detailed way of conversing, may talk for hours on end, and a guy simply has to listen. If a guy likes talking about himself more than he should, women easily lose interest and think a guy is nothing but bluff.
Don't just be funny, be a lot of fun. Women adore men who can make them laugh. But in relationships, laughter is not always an accurate means of connection. One can laugh at your jokes, but may think you're inefficient as a person. You need to be able to make a girl laugh, but also to keep her interested in you, as a whole, as a person yourself.
Don't be too nice to me. Vin Diesel is a bad guy who doesn't back down. He's not too polite and he will tell a girl just what he thinks. He does not beg for attention, and that's why he gets the attention of many girls. He has a "I'll do what you want, you do whatever" attitude, that challenges any girl to tame him.
Just go get what you want. The sexiest thing about a guy is when he is spontaneous bout his preferences and just gets them like a tiger gets its prey. He doesn't sway back and forth and rethink and over-think his choices, because he is not a big fan of wasting time.
A man has to be comfortable in his own skin, so he can project confidence easily.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
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