What Do You Mean You Can't Attract Women? The Best Way to Attract Women With Deflection Theory

Here's a common scenario, you might face when trying to attract women. You're at the bar or at a party, you have your eye on one girl in particular. You're trying to make a connection -- she smiles at you, talks politely, but she's not flirting with you and not responding to your attempts to seduce her.



This didn't happen because you're not her type, and it didn't happen just because sometimes these things happen. There is a reason, she appears to not be interested in you, and it's purely psychological.



When you show that you're attracted to a good-looking girl, who is with a group of friends, you've automatically bumped up her ego. Because you chose her and shown the most interest in her, you have given her a feeling of elevated importance. She knows that if she responds how you want her to respond ( flirting back ) she will lose that feeling of superiority over her friends.



You can overcome this situation by using deflection theory. You simply need to deflect your attention away from her and onto one or more of her friends.



When you give her friends more attention than her, you are challenging her ego. Like many women do, she will begin to want what she can't have. Here is how to implement this method to attract women you thought you never had a chance at.



Maintain strong eye contact when talking to all of her friends. When you are talking to the girl that you want, make sure to glance away to one of the other girls repeatedly. You have just inserted a sense of competition into the subconscious of the woman you're trying to attract.



Already she will begin to vie for your attention.



Touch her friends, casually more than you touch her. Touch them on the side of their arms, when standing in a group to get their attention, or when sharing a laugh.



When in a group use body language to make her think you are not interested in her. Place your body facing in the direction of one of her friends.



This is just one psychological technique. You can use to pick up your game when it comes to how to attract women. Combine this method with others to succeed in picking up more women than you ever thought was possible.