Understanding Women - Know What They're Really Thinking

Understanding women can be very difficult for men. In fact, a sexy women can be very confusing and at the same time, trulyintoxicating.



Haven't you asked yourself these questions at one time or another:



- "Why does she push me away when I'm being nice to her?"
- "How come she canceled our date last minute?"
- "She flirts with me, but gets upset whenever I make my move. Is she just a tease?"



It's as if women delight in expressing something then twist 180 degrees and do the very opposite.



But look beneath the surface and you'll find that there's more to it than that.



Last night my brother Mike started to complain about a cutie he met a few nights earlier. He said she gave him all the right IOI's (Indications of Interest) but called off his date last minute. She wouldn't even return any of his calls and he had no clue as to why.



He told me all this because he was hoping for some advice.



I said "Sucks to be you"! Then offered some advice.



I'll admit that you never know when a woman is going to flake on you or not.



But it's been my experience that the greatest difference between men and women is in how they look at various situations.



Women tend to use their EMOTIONS in decoding situations. For example: "OK he knows I'm hot, but will he like me for me? Let's find out...



Oh yes, women, especially the HOT ones, will test you. That's OK. It just adds more spice to the game.



Guys, on the other hand, will try to use logic. (Until it comes time to approach, then they wimp out). An example: "She's flirting so she's gotta be interested"!



Mike's girl started out interested when they met. But then tested him to check if he was the sort of guy that would be a challenge for her.



In other words, was he a challenge?



Women do this because they WANT you to step up.



There is a precise emotional based reaction that take place and you need to create it in them or they will create it in you. That's the game.



When a sexy girl cancels on you, what she is attempting to do is create a certain position in which she holds power. She needs to make you pursue her.



You need to turn the tables on her and have her pursue you. This is not a bad thing to do. Women actually want you to do this.



Here is another key to understanding women. They are attracted to confident men.



To gain the upper hand in your relationships with sexy girls you need to become a strong and confidant man in any situation:



1. Identify what moves the various girls you encounter



2. Realize when they are out to test you.



3. Make her earn your attention but don't snub her.



By understanding women, you really can control their actions.



You'll soon discover that by challenging a sexy woman in fun and flirty ways engages her emotions at a very high level and is enjoyable for both you and her.