Dealing with anxiety around women is a frequent problem for most males. After all you may be intimated by her looks, curves and dominant personality. As a result it causes you to freeze up and be at a loss for words at what to say. Even worse coming off so nervous makes the women nervous too so you both create an uncomfortable situation for each other.
Situations like this can make your date life very boring or even nonexistent causing you to feel much pain and anxiety because you do not feel appreciated and validated by the opposite sex.
Since you only live life once it is important you live a life that is fun and exciting when it comes to dating the opposite sex. In this article I will outline two tips you can apply to help ease your nervousness around women and help you become more successful.
Most guys get nervous when talking to women partially because they are intimated and even more so because they do not know what to say and how to say it. Instead of letting the women ask you questions you should first have a few questions of your own that you can ask so that you can direct the conversation to a positive outcome.
Women love to talk about topics such as fashion, movies, current events and TV shows. Once you guys establish some common ground keep asking questions because it puts you in control and women love to talk about themselves.
Another great tactic to ease your nervousness around women would be to stop putting the women on a pedestal. Most of the time men give women way too much high value just because they look good. Sure they look good but they have flaws just like us and most hot women have more insecurities than you can imagine.
Remember that they are human and they make mistakes just like us. Also when you see a really attractive woman try and picture something less attractive about her so that it can help you think of her as more average.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
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