If you think that there's just a few married women flirting and thinking about hooking up, think again. It's epidemic.
Let's take a look at it. There is never a time in a woman's life where she wants to feel that her sexiness and beauty has slipped away, isn't that so? Yet, this is exactly what happens in most marriages once the partners settle in and get involved with the tough business of living. You see the mutual neglect of marital partners everywhere. It slips away. Most men, once this happens, don't even try to get the "hot juices" flowing again.
A frustrated woman finds this intolerable to live with. A normal woman in such a dead arrangement starts to naturally doubt her sexuality.
For the majority of married women flirting with men, the ultimate test is this: can she still pull men to her, of any age, like a magnet or not?
She can ask herself, "if I'm married and flirting, will I still get the same result that I got when I was 19 with men?"
Initially, she may start going to bars to employ this exercise and try to dispel such self doubt.
She's simply curious and may not want to act on her results.
The aim of her prowess could run the gamut of young, healthy post-teen studs or with older, potentially cheating spouses who still have a few good years left. Then she may eye the few rare gems that show up in between.
No matter who she considers, the desired result is the same. It needs to answer the obsessive question "Am I still hot?" The answer that plays out can have an ecstatic or devastating result on a woman seeking married affairs.
Are the boys going to crowd around me and compete for my attention or not? The moment of truth that manifests can make or break a lady's self esteem quickly.
Conversely, most guys will not mind having affairs with married women if she still looks hot, is desirable and by all means, remains cool and grounded.
There are very few real choices for married women looking for guys who would consider dating a married woman. First, single young guys could be a plentiful pool of easy sex for the hot cougar if she is just looking to "get it off".
However, does a married lady want to spend time before and after sex baby sitting a recent ex-teenager? I would assume that if she does not want to drop some IQ points or spend time butt wiping, it would be a much better alternative to be in the pool of women who have considered the alternative of dating for married people. There's also a very strong possibility of the younger male getting attached. The emotional stability level is very dicey. It's unpredictable in the extreme. Problems that could potentially recoil and cause a world of trouble due to such immature attachments are very feasible.
It's, in fact, almost guaranteed.
Then, there's the pool of older married men who could be perusing the general married women personals for the possibility of a good time with no strings attached. But, you're strictly on your own and at risk in so many ways using that approach. Craigslist? Newspaper ads? Really?-I don't think so.
If she ponders the idea to approaching this by looking into the married women personals, I would strongly suggest that she thinks that idea through and thoroughly. Did you ever hear the term "bottom feeder"? Well, that's pretty much the ilk of poor specimens that she will have to wallow through.
Married women flirting around in these forums are also putting themselves at a very high risk of exposure. Keep in mind the possibility of being stalked and all the evils that follow that too. Frankly, if you go there, you deserve what you get.
There is a ready, smart and easy solution for married women flirting and then looking to have a discreet affair.
Marriage dating has quickly become an easy source for finding ready partners. In the trend of married women looking for affairs, married men are a rational alternative.
You could do much better if you're a married woman looking for a married man. The risk of exposure, attachment, being stalked and all other such horrors decrease dramatically.
Thursday, November 26, 2009
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