The Simple Truth About How to Attract Women

To learn how to attract women, the first thing you have to realize is this: What women want, and what they say they want, are quite often two very different things.



Most women under 35 were raised on Disney movies. Their views on love and relationships have been shaped by the fairytale romance they were sold as little girls. You know, Prince Charming overcomes adversity to win the princess, and then everyone lives happily ever after.



Those views have been reinforced by unrealistic romance novels and romantic comedies designed to appeal to women's fantasies.



That same chorus of crap has also been fed to us men since childhood. Movies, the media, and the so-called "experts" have filled our heads with useless junk.



We were never told that women are hard-wired - from thousands of years of evolution - to be attracted to certain traits in men. Never told that biology and instinct still matter.



In place of that knowledge, most men have accepted society's lie that women's affections can be bought - with flowers, or compliments, or a romantic dinner. And that you can lure a woman down from her white tower by simply communicating how you feel about her.



So we act all nice to the women we like, complimenting them, trying to convey our interest, trying to communicate that we are courting them.



But the Disney fantasy was a lie to begin with. The Prince Charming shtick simply does not work in the twenty-first century. These days, every attractive woman is constantly hit on, constantly complimented, constantly made to feel like a beautiful princess.



The attractive, high-quality woman became jaded to that whole approach long ago, and has since retreated up onto a pedestal, where she can survey all the guys coming on to her.



She thinks, "Hmm, these guys are nice and all, but if they are all doing the same thing, there must be some other, high-quality guys who are different - harder to get."



Now consider this: If a woman is up on a pedestal because a bunch of average guys made her realize she has a certain degree of value, but she doesn't want to share her value with the guys around the base of her pedestal because she feels that she deserves better, WHAT WILL ATTRACT HER ATTENTION AND DESIRE?



The answer, of course, is a guy on a higher pedestal, someone with such a sense of self-worth that he barely notices her, if at all.



A guy who she has to impress is one worth chasing - one worth her attention and affection.
Let that sink in for a minute. This is one of the most important things to really understand about human attraction: how value is perceived in the female mind.



In the words of renowned ladies' man Casanova, "Be the flame, not the moth."



When you learn how to raise your value - first in your mind, then in hers - you will shine like a brilliant flame and attract beautiful women with ease.