Relationship Mistakes Women Make With Men

The top three relationship mistakes women make with men revolve around pretending, hiding, faking, or not noticing true beliefs, feelings, and thoughts. This goes along with pretending to be all that the man desires or to have a character unique enough to adapt / change in order to avoid or resolve potentially painful conflicts and natural differences.



People are truly different, aside from being made up of flesh and blood and sharing in the common hierarchy of needs that include food, shelter, clothing, and ultimately -- the achievement of self-actualization.



Ironically, trying too hard to please someone else (or) seemingly doing yourself the favor of avoiding the pains of truth... remains counterproductive to the entire concept and need for self-actualization.



You will find that ultimately, the most long-lasting and loving relationships contain the element of freedom... that is, liberty to speak, encouragement to think, plus unlimited permission to act upon one's wishes, motivations, impulses, dreams, and desires. Another aspect or version of the mistakes women make with men includes not noticing the obvious signs that already exist in a potential partnership.



The truth is that the essential nature of a person does not ordinarily or automatically change with the passage of time. For example, if a person loves brisk-walking, long-distance exercises, then as time moves along, perhaps he or she may walk a little slower, or even a little faster.



Yet, regardless of such chosen intensity, available leisure time, or even having the right partner with whom to share this activity, they a basically ALWAYS look forward to performing brisk-walking, long-distance exercises, or seriously miss it when it does not occur.



Using this as an example only, there are preferences that your mate already possesses, plus a few more that become more obviously apparent as you begin to reveal yourselves to each other... and some partners who erroneously develop the habit of pretending, faking, hiding, or intentionally not-noticing... will attempt to change their own feelings, actions, or activities merely to suit the other mate in the relationship.



While this may seem like a truly "gallant" or wonderfully "philanthropic" gesture, at its base lays a mistaken perception -- that this is the best or only way to please one's partner.



Quite the contrary, in such pretending you deny yourself and your companion the chance to express, create, or progress with new solutions for maintaining your mutual joy and peace without having to be ultimately "self-sacrificial."



When-relationships are truly good ones, the need for one mate to "win" just about EVERY emotional gratification while the other "gives up" or "loses something"... this type of wasteful need disappears when-relationships are balanced, fruitful, and truly non-pressurized.



The very first of the three greater mistakes women make with men covers a lot of ground because it basically comprises the umbrella under which nearly all the other errors occur.



As a case in point, the very first day you meet your future partner (unknowing as it may seem in the beginning) you already possess the innate experience to question, examine, plus intelligently and openly discuss particular topics of impact and substance. These have the potential to comprise plus reveal the commonality or disparity in principles of character, ethics, integrity, honor, service, and trust.



Yet, instead of asking these crucial questions in a creative and enjoyable (yet realistic) way -- new couples tend to skip over the relationship "meat and potatoes" to live only in "desert" mode -- that is, keeping mild and passive pleasantries at the forefront of consciousness while spending time together. This is especially one of the grave mistakes women make with men because men have the tendency to conceal important points or dilute them, in order to deeply and instantly gain a woman's favor.



This comprises a bullet that can be dodged, provided you use your innate skills, rather than unwisely electing to pretend, hide, fake, or simply allow potentially monumental misunderstandings to go "un-discussed" and unnoticed. There will be more supportive upcoming content that more deeply explains the remaining two mistakes women make with men.



However, in the meantime, suffice it to say that you can easily fix troubled relationships, and even a dying relationship, by adopting and developing your skills on the first of these major mistakes women make with men.



Essentially, the BIGGEST three are: 1) Pretending / Not Noticing / Hiding / Faking / Avoiding; 2) Appeasing At The Expense Of Debilitated Self-Respect; and 3) Gaining One's Romantic Education Via Hurtful Experience Rather Than Careful Intellectual Study.



Is it merely a coincidence that thousands of ladies have stories about being deceived or disrespected? Think about it, and you can make a personalized reply, comment, or discuss this topic with others, at Fix-Troubled-Relationship.Info