American Women Really Don't Like You

Any man who has dated Asian ladies who live in the United

States, has witness the wrath, jealously and prejudice of

American women towards Asian ladies. I know I have, as have many

of my friends. The stereotypical has some merit: American women

can't compete against the Asians' sexuality, American women feel

threaten and some American women simply think Asians are

stealing their men. These all bear some truth.



My experience is first hand. I dated many Asian ladies and have

heard the comments. If we frequent a typical American club, I

have had my dates threaten by American women in the restroom.



In

time, Asian clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asian

club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American

lady being threaten by Asians in a typical Asian club. It just

isn't their nature. The crowd in these clubs are usually Asian

ladies and American men.



There are many Asian ladies in the U.S., especially from the

Philippines. A lot of these ladies arrived via meeting an

American G.I. I really don't know the percentage, but there is

no doubt that most Filipina ladies have a military connection in

some way.



They met in the Philippines, got married, and came to

the United States with their military husband. Consequently,

you'll meet Asian ladies in clubs who are married. If you mingle

with Asian ladies that frequent the clubs for any length of

time, you will eventually meet ladies who are unfaithful. This

unfaithfulness is how Filipina ladies are branded as whores by

American women. This doesn't carry the same stigma for American

women who may do the same. Hypocrisy is always evident when

behaviors of the two cultures are compared.



What the American GI has discovered is now catching on with

non-military men. Asian dating sites have sprung up all over the

internet. Some of these sites try to exploit the Asians'

sexuality. However, there are many Asian ladies who want to meet

a sincere gentlemen for a relationship. As attractive as Asian

ladies may be, American men are also captivated by the Asians'

behavior towards men. A man's dream of having a wife who wants

to please him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in

making a home seems to have been found by American men in the

Asian culture.



You'll hear American men call these values

"traditional values" because at one time these were the values

that held the American family together.



The tired argument about these women being a servant to their

husband, is one sided. Do these women like serving their

husband? Yes, most do. But not as slaves. They are not forced to

do so, but have the desire to please their man out of

appreciation and love. These ladies are doing what they want to

do. I repeat, they WANT to please their man, do things for him

and show their appreciation.



In turn, these men are happy, want

to provide for their wife and have no desire to look elsewhere

for this appreciation. It's chemistry that once prevailed many

years ago in the United States and has been lost in the myriad

of women rights in American society.



Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner from another

country? I'm not going to argue the fact that these ladies want

a better life. It's probably true. I will argue that most women,

no matter the country, want to marry in to a better life.



Again,

it is the hypocrisy of who you are that makes a behavior

negative or not. Most women, in the United States, need to look

in a mirror before judging ladies from other cultures. Besides

wanting a better life, most Asian ladies want better treatment.

In a Filipina lady's eyes, men from the West treat women better

then men from their country. Is there truth to this? The feed

back I get from the ladies at my website is yes or at least they

perceive it to be so. I'm sure the social status of your family

makes a difference of how you are treated regardless of your

gender, but I'm talking about the average Filipina lady.



The

difference is simple. In her country what she does for her man

or husband is expected without appreciation. Here in the United

States, most men come to expect a lady isn't required to serve

him, to want to please him, and love him for who he is. When an

Asian lady does, his appreciation is certain. For an Asian lady,

the man doesn't have to be super rich or look like a movie star,

just treat her well and show his love. It's a merry-go-round

with respect and love as it's focal point. She wants to please

him, he loves her for pleasing him, she loves him for showing he

appreciates her love and so on.



All the above words, statements and my observations have their

exceptions. There is no doubt, there are bad men in every

country. There is no doubt that some women only are in it for

the money or to get a free pass to the United States. These are

the exceptions and it is this minority that the media and others

will use to blanket a whole culture in a negative light. I'm

sure most of you have seen in print or on the news about "mail

order bride" scandals or "mail order bride" mistreatment as if

this defines all courtships and marriages that develop through

the internet.



If a few instances defines the standards, then

just getting a marriage license in the United States should have

a warning imprinted in gold. No matter if a couple met through

the internet or at the neighborhood church, you have your share

of scandals and mistreatment. The last culture of experts that

needs to be giving advise about how to meet and marry a women is

the United States - is there any other country whose divorce

rate is higher?



The Philippines does not condone online dating sites.



For that

matter, it is against the law. I'm not going to quote their law

here, but it has to do with moral issues. Again hypocrisy!. If

the Philippines are so worried about women rights, there are

other issues they could concentrate on besides taking away a

women's right to find happiness, love and a better life for

herself. She wouldn't be looking elsewhere, if the Philippine

government took care of her needs. Should I complain? Probably

not, or most Filipina women would not be joining online dating

sites to meet American men.



My objection to this law is how it

is used in the Philippines as a political vehicle rather then

sincere concern for women's rights. Hypocrisy, it is everywhere,

isn't it?



I started this article to comment on why a lot of American women

despise Asian women. Not all American women, but a lot. But the

discrimination doesn't stop there. It is evident in the media,

politics and indeed in their own country. The people who are

forgotten, are the couples themselves. Why not just ask them? If

two people who found each other are happy, in love and want to

be together, why does the media and politician think they know

better.



More then likely, it isn't about what the couple want,

but more about politics and sensationalism to sell news. Take

your hatred, your narrow minded views and negative publicity

elsewhere and let us find love - even if we find it on the

internet.