Mini Dating Manual - How to Pick Up Women

Having trouble with women? I wrote this mini dating manual for guys who want to learn (or get better at) picking up women. If you follow these basic steps you're chances of success will sky rocket.



Where do we begin



Chances are, nobody you know right now can teach you how to consistently pick up women. You may even be friends with the best ladies men in the world, but unless they know how to articulate what their doing in an understandable way, they won't be able to teach you. The "dating experts" you see in the media usually aren't good either.



Picking up women is not a "socially correct" topic. It's about guys trying to get laid. It can be a bit misogynistic at times. If you're OK with that, let's get started with this mini dating manual. First, we'll uncover the myths that we've been taught through social conditioning (aka The media)



Good looks have nothing to do with it



Women care more about how men make them FEEL. Not about how they look. As men we judge women mostly for their looks. Women are much more in tune to their emotions than men.



If you can make a woman FEEL amazing, it doesn't matter if you're a 4ft chubby man. Don't worry if you don't look like Brad Pitt. Looks don't mean anything.



Money can't buy attraction



If a woman likes you, she won't care how much money you have in the bank. She'll even pay for you and help you out financially. You don't need money to make a woman feel crazy strong emotions towards you. Realize this: Personality beats every other obstacle you may have to picking up women.



Being good with women is a LEARNED SKILL.



It takes time, dedication, and hard work. If you keep going, you will get there. Trust me, it's worth it! To make this process faster, you have to go out as often as you can. I recommend: Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. Keep in mind that the best Pick Up Artists in the world went out 7 days a week when they started.



Make a plan of going out a certain number of times per week and stick to that plan.



When you go out, be conscious of the image your projecting. Yes, I said earlier in this mini-dating manual that looks don't matter.



They don't, but STYLE does. Are you a rocker, a cowboy, a goth, etc... The point is that you should be aware of what you come across as. If you don't know, ask people (that's a great way to meet women by the way). It doesn't matter what your style is as long as you have good hygiene and you stand out just a little bit. The key is to dress in a way that makes you feel good.



Structure



In the beginning you're going to need some training wheels so you'll need a structure. I've included one here, if you like you can research your own.



1. Approach.
2. Playful/Flirty Banter (Make fun of her with a cheeky smile)
3. Touch (Hug her, dance, spin her, etc...)
4. Close (kiss, get the number, or take her home).