Secrets of Attraction - 4 Points to Get Women Instantly Attracted

These secrets of attraction were found by me through many nights spent in bars and clubs. I used to be terrible at attracting women. That painful realization led to me going out night after night in order to get better at dating with beautiful women. Through massive experimentation I've come to realize that when it comes to the attraction that a girl has towards a guy, looks matter WAY less than people think they do.



Guys focus on the girl's looks as a source of her value. That is true. However, girls will looks at a guy's actions as the source of HIS value.



This is not some theory that I've thought up while sipping mojitos on a beach, it is something that I've seen AGAIN and AGAIN in clubs, bars, etc. If you know the secrets of attraction, then your looks don't matter. You just need to trigger the girl's attraction mechanism, and presto! Attraction will happen whether she wants it to happen or not.



Here are the top secrets of attraction that have worked for me time and time again:







Body language. This is key. The vast majority of communication is non-verbal (some studies put it anywhere between 67%-93%).



That means that you can't hunch, be scared of taking up lots of space with your arms and legs. You have to make sure to speak with a loud dominant voice, and you do need to have strong eye contact.



Physical touch. Key for building attraction and allowing you to escalate sexually when you need to. Don't make this one too obvious, but do it just enough to show that you're comfortable with yourself, and are not intimidated by the girl.



Teasing. This is all about making fun of the girl. You need to do it playfully and with a smile on your face.



Is she a closet nerd that loves to read anatomy textbooks? Does she have a bunch of cats with people's names? Etc. Flirt and make a few jokes, but don't push it too far. Here the key is to make her flirt back. If she gets seriously offended, or doesn't want to talk to you, then you messed up. Its time to change your approach a little bit and try again.



Leading. This is the most important secret of attraction. If we look from an evolutionary perspective, women are attracted to alpha males because their genes dictate who they should mate with in order to increase the highest chance of survival of their children.



Alpha males are known for being leaders. This is one reason why being a leader will make women attracted to you. Remember that leadership is a skill that can be developed over time (so don't fret if you don't possess it yet)







These 4 points have been absolutely indispensable to my dating life. The secrets of attraction stated above can mean the difference between sleeping with a new woman every week, or being dateless for months. I hope they help you as much as they have helped me out in my dating life.