Sunday, November 8, 2009

Four Reasons Why Men Should Meet Women Online (And One ReasonWhy They Shouldn't)

Men, if you don't already have women chasing after you every

day, then you should be dating women online. Here are the Four

most compelling reasons why men should be seeking out and

meeting women online, and one reason why they absolutely

shouldn't.



1) Online dating is the most amazing gift to men invented since

woman herself. (Well, most women.)



Think about it for a moment. For one small flat fee (and

sometimes for no fee at all) you can scope out women, learn what

they like, what they don't like, check out their picture and

actually begin swapping emails, IMs and talking with them.



Here's what you don't have: To get dressed up; to gas up your

car; to spend hours of your prime time; to buy drinks for people

you don't' know; to fail in public.



On balance, it's a pretty convenient and effective method of

meeting women.



2) There are MILLIONS of women ACTIVELY LOOKING for you online.

They are not coy "bar chicks" or girls with boyfriends. They are

what we call in marketing, HOT LEADS. Smoking hot! Because they

are coming out to meet you half way. You just have to learn how

to become the bait they are seeking.



Now, there are two basic reasons women are there on line. Some

are there to look for a guy to marry. Some are looking for a guy

to just hook up with.



But that pretty much explains guys, too. So no matter what

reason you're looking for women, there are women looking for

you, too.



3) Women online range from not-so-hot to super-hot. I have

personally hooked up with some of the most beautiful women of my

life from online. And any cursory tour through one of the better

sites will show you - this is not a side option for single guys

- it's a MUST DO!



So the attractiveness of women online pretty much mirrors the

attractiveness of women anywhere, right? Well, that's to be

expected.



But when you are at a bar or club trying to meet

women, you only have a few dozen to choose from at most. And

everyone is going to be hounding the hot ones.



Online, you've got those MILLIONS to choose from. What's even

better is that you can search for them by location, income,

religion. . . all this stuff you can get out of the way before

you even say Hi.



4) Online dating is THE place to practice your game. Whether you

still remember awkward Junior High School dances like it was

yesterday, or you effortlessly meet and hookup with women all

the time, Online is the place to practice without personal

rejection.



There are lots of great techniques for meeting and seducing

women. Whatever "way" you are, or whatever "technique" you

choose, you'll have more time to practice it online. Whatever

you do, learn from your mistakes as well as your successes. Not

everything is going to work every time, and you shouldn't expect

it to.



One other great advantage to online dating is that you don't

have to fear rejection. These women you approach don't know you.

Your friends aren't there to watch you crash and burn.



So, you

can take risks that you wouldn't normally take if you were

talking to a woman in person.



And that means you'll succeed more than in person, too.



Maybe.



But there is one reason NOT to go online to meet women: Being

closed minded. You are going to be exposed to lots more women

online than you've ever seen before. If you are closed minded

when you write or talk with them, you're sure to fail. If you

are not willing to get out of your rut and try something

different, to learn something new, then you are sure to fail.



If

you don't learn how to listen and read women's profiles

properly, to truly understand what they mean in their profiles

or emails to you, you are sure to fail.



So, don't be closed minded. Online dating is the single best

method for meeting women today if you approach it properly. Done

wrong, it can lead to the same results you've always had, and

that may not be what you want.



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