Sunday, November 8, 2009

American women don't like Asian girls ! Why ?

Any man who has dated Asian girls who live in the United States,

has witness the wrath, jealously and prejudice of American women

towards Asian girls.



I know I have, as have many of my friends. The stereotypical has

some merit: American women can't compete against the Asians'

sexuality, American women feel threaten and some American women

simply think Asians are stealing their men. These all bear some

truth.



My experience is first hand. I dated many Asian girls and have

heard the comments. If we frequent a typical American club, I

have had my dates threaten by American women in the restroom.



In

time, Asian clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asian

club, American women are welcome.



I have never seen an American lady being threaten by Asians in a

typical Asian club. It just isn't their nature. The crowd in

these clubs are usually Asian girls and American men.



There are many Asian girls in the U.S., especially from the

Philippines. A lot of these girls arrived via meeting an

American G.I. I really don't know the percentage, but there is

no doubt that most Filipina girls have a military connection in

some way.



They met in the Philippines, got married, and came to the United

States with their military husband. Consequently, you'll meet

Asian girls in clubs who are married.



If you mingle with Asian girls that frequent the clubs for any

length of time, you will eventually meet ladies who are

unfaithful. This unfaithfulness is how Filipina girls are

branded as whores by American women. This doesn't carry the same

stigma for American women who may do the same. Hypocrisy is

always evident when behaviors of the two cultures are compared.



What the American GI has discovered is now catching on with

non-military men. Asian dating sites have sprung up all over the

internet. Some of these sites try to exploit the Asians'

sexuality.



However, there are many Asian girls who want to meet a sincere

gentlemen for a relationship.



As attractive as Asian girls may be, American men are also

captivated by the Asians' behavior towards men. A man's dream of

having a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love and

treasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been found

by American men in the Asian culture.



You'll hear American men call these values "traditional values"

because at one time these were the values that held the American

family together.



The tired argument about these women being a servant to their

husband, is one sided. Do these women like serving their

husband? Yes, most do. But not as slaves.



They are not forced to do so, but have the desire to please

their man out of appreciation and love. These girls are doing

what they want to do. I repeat, they WANT to please their man,

do things for him and show their appreciation.



In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife and

have no desire to look elsewhere for this appreciation. It's

chemistry that once prevailed many years ago in the United

States and has been lost in the myriad of women rights in

American society.



Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner from another

country? I'm not going to argue the fact that these ladies want

a better life. It's probably true.



I will argue that most women, no matter the country, want to

marry in to a better life.



Again, it is the hypocrisy of who you

are that makes a behavior negative or not. Most women, in the

United States, need to look in a mirror before judging ladies

from other cultures.



Besides wanting a better life, most Asian ladies want better

treatment. In a Filipina lady's eyes, men from the West treat

women better then men from their country. Is there truth to

this? The feed back I get from the ladies at my website is yes

or at least they perceive it to be so.



I'm sure the social status of your family makes a difference of

how you are treated regardless of your gender, but I'm talking

about the average Filipina girl.



The difference is simple. In

her country what she does for her man or husband is expected

without appreciation.



Here in the United States, most men come to expect a lady isn't

required to serve him, to want to please him, and love him for

who he is. When an Asian girl does, his appreciation is certain.

For an Asian lady, the man doesn't have to be super rich or look

like a movie star, just treat her well and show his love.



It's a merry-go-round with respect and love as it's focal point.

She wants to please him, he loves her for pleasing him, she

loves him for showing he appreciates her love and so on.



All the above words, statements and my observations have their

exceptions. There is no doubt, there are bad men in every

country. There is no doubt that some women only are in it for

the money or to get a free pass to the United States.



These are the exceptions and it is this minority that the media

and others will use to blanket a whole culture in a negative

light. I'm sure most of you have seen in print or on the news

about "mail order bride" scandals or "mail order bride"

mistreatment as if this defines all courtships and marriages

that develop through the internet.



If a few instances defines the standards, then just getting a

marriage license in the United States should have a warning

imprinted in gold.



No matter if a couple met through the internet or at the

neighborhood church, you have your share of scandals and

mistreatment. The last culture of experts that needs to be

giving advise about how to meet and marry a women is the United

States - is there any other country whose divorce rate is

higher?



The Philippines does not condone online dating sites.



For that

matter, it is against the law. I'm not going to quote their law

here, but it has to do with moral issues. Again hypocrisy!.



If the Philippines are so worried about women rights, there are

other issues they could concentrate on besides taking away a

women's right to find happiness, love and a better life for

herself.



She wouldn't be looking elsewhere, if the Philippine government

took care of her needs. Should I complain? Probably not, or most

Filipina women would not be joining online dating sites to meet

American men.



My objection to this law is how it is used in the Philippines as

a political vehicle rather then sincere concern for women's

rights. Hypocrisy, it is everywhere, isn't it?



I started this article to comment on why a lot of American women

despise Asian girls. Not all American women, but a lot. But the

discrimination doesn't stop there. It is evident in the media,

politics and indeed in their own country.



The people who are forgotten, are the couples themselves. Why

not just ask them? If two people who found each other are happy,

in love and want to be together, why does the media and

politician think they know better.



More then likely, it isn't about what the couple want, but more

about politics and sensationalism to sell news. Take your

hatred, your narrow minded views and negative publicity

elsewhere and let us find love - even if we find it on the

internet.



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