The Truth About Dating Today's Sexy Women

I received a very interesting email from a man regarding how to

deal with what he calls "today's new breed of woman"-- sexy

women who expect men to be subservient and submissive.



I get a lot of emails on this topic, many from men comparing

American women to foreign women, complaining that American women

are too domineering to deal with. Is this true? Does "today's

sexy women" really want a wimp for a man... or is there

something else going on? Read on to discover the surprising

answer...



"John, I have read much of your information with interest.



You

always emphasize having authority with women. But my question

is: what about today's dominant sexy women? Many women of today

are dominant and expect and require a man to take the submissive

and subservient role.



To these new breed of women, a dominant man is anathema! These

attractive, sexy women expect a man to play 'second fiddle,'

even to cater to their every whim. It is their way or the

highway! But how do I approach today's dominant women without

appearing too needy? And even more how do I get on intimate

terms with them? I have known some dominant women but I have

never gotten intimate with them.



They have used me as a play

toy, a personal chore and errand boy at their beck and call with

nothing to show for it in the end. Thanks, Tom"



Tom is misinterpreting "dominance" here--today's women

absolutely do NOT want a submissive, subservient man. They want

a man who defines authority, and acts like, well, a MAN. The

problem is, there are so many wimpy, wussy, whiney little boys

out there, that very desireable, sexy women who are approached 5

times a day, are forced to come up with a testing mechanism to

separate the "men from the boys.



" Imagine being approached 5

times a day by guys, and the time and energy it would take to

reject them all?



What they do is, they test men by seeing if they'll act

submissive and subservient. The instant the "man" does, he's

classified as a wuss, and the woman will continue to see how far

she can push the envelope, hoping and praying for some display

of authority. But, in today's society where men are raised to be

pansies and whiners, sexy women often never get it, becoming

more and more frustrated.



However, when you demonstrate authority early on, and let her

know in a naughty, funny, yet firm way that her tests are for

wimps and whiners, an amazing thing happens--she's attracted to

you and appreciates the authority you've given her. Lookit, I've

met and dated a lot of sexy women other guys consider "dominant"

and in talking to and spending time with these women all of them

say the same thing--"I just want to find a MAN." Are today's

women a bit more assertive? Sure--but all that means is that

you, as a man, be more assertive and authoritative in return.



Unfortunately, most "men" today go the opposite way, putting on

the diapers and crying for Mommy because a woman was "mean" to

them.



Probably the most misunderstood subject in today's world is

authority--many men mistake authority for abuse of authority, or

are uncomfortable with the subject altogether. The truth is,

authority is simply the art of getting other people to want to

do what you want them to do, and can be learned by any man. The

bad news is, there are few places to learn it, the good news is,

I have a system that will teach it to you, and I highly

recommend you get your hands on it.



Look, I have never met a sexy woman, no matter how assertive she

seems on the outside, who doesn't respond to true authority by a

man, especially one who lets her know he recognizes her tests,

and they don't wash with him. In my mind, there is no better

opportunity than when you meet the so called "new breed of

woman" because when you know how to deal with her tests, and

demonstrate that to her, she'll do anything to please you and

keep you happy in return. Why? Because she knows her chances of

finding that in another man in today's Age of the Wuss are

between slim and none.



-John Alanis "The King of Let 'em Come to You"