Why Are Married Women Looking For Affairs?

As cheating on your husband or wife has become natural, one may ask whether monogamy, the principle of marriage is a natural thing? If you look around, you will see that sexual monogamy became more and more questionable.



The institution of marriage was created when average personal mobility in a lifetime was no more than 20 miles, as there were no cars or aircraft. In these times the primary concern was the struggle for food. Of course, there were noblemen and traveling merchants that were looking for adventures, but a married women looking for an affair was almost inconceivable.



If a woman was cheating on his husband, she would be punished severely. The most moderate punishment would be for the woman to be an outcast. But married men looking for adventure were tolerated, as they were the hunters, the bread winners, the travelers. This double standard could be observed in most cultures and lasted centuries.



But in the 20th Century, family structure changed: women became equal to men in every aspect of life, including adultery. Air travel, telephone and internet helped bring down the geographical barriers, and this way a woman has multiple opportunities to find a partner.



Internet has become the new hunting ground of women looking for an adventure, and society started to tolerate this type of conduct. There is an increasingly accepted belief that morals, customs, and cultural codes of conduct of the past have to be forgotten: society, people, and customs had changed.



Life span has doubled from the Middle Ages: back then, a person's life span was about 30 years. Now, with a life expectancy of about 70, both women and men have other needs. Everybody heard about women who had no intention of divorce their husband, but couldn't imagine intimate with him either.



She loves him, but needs somebody to have sex with. This is how emotional monogamy and sexual infidelity can live together.



Most of the women looking for an affair love their children and husband, and have no intention of disrupting family life. Because of this, they are extremely aware: they would never start an affair with someone near to them, like a neighbor or colleague. And they don't risk cheating their husband with a single man, as the result is likely to be emotional attachment. The safest way is looking for a married man online.



The main issue of such a relationship is discretion and privacy: this way, family life is not affected.